Just to put a little perspective on the scene -- This is our Dining Room table. Her side is on the right. His side is on the left. Some days it is difficult to tell one side from the other. Some days the clutter overlaps. Today I just got tired of the whole big mess thing. I know it doesn't accomplish anything to suggest a clean-up day so I decided to clean up my own mess and gently shove 'his' center overlaps to his side. Maybe I can make a statement. Maybe not. I don't care. I can only do for myself.
There is a LOT more to this than two sides of a table.......